People Are Using Online Dating for Sex

(and Why It’s Safer Than Meeting in Person)

The main purpose of line dating goes beyond finding a long-term partner because it serves as a platform for casual hookups. Let’s be honest! Modern dating technology enables millions of users to find casual encounters through hookup apps and dating websites which provide safer alternatives to conventional face-to-face dating. I have witnessed numerous unsuccessful male approaches during my time in the wild, trust me when I say: you’re much better off starting online.

The Rise of Hookup (Sex) Apps

Let’s get real – nobody wants to spend hours at a bar hoping to bump into someone who’s single, interested, and not already making bad life choices. (That can get creepy and expensive) Hookup apps changed that game. With a swipe or a click, you can find people who are just as eager for sexual encounters as you are. It cuts through the nonsense and gets to the point: attraction, connection, and maybe more.

And no, it doesn’t mean love is dead, it just means people are embracing options. Sometimes we want a relationship, sometimes we want fun. Online dating gives us both without wasting time.

Why Online Dating is Actually Safer and more fun

The process of meeting new people in person creates an uncomfortable experience which resembles a random chance encounter. The process of getting to know someone online provides a basic level of screening before meeting in person. Users can view pictures and read profiles and sense the personality of potential matches before deciding to meet in person.

The ability to reject someone through a screen provides women with a more comfortable experience than facing unwanted physical contact at a bar. Women using dating platforms have the ability to select their matches based on their preferences through built-in filtering systems. The screening process on dating sites and apps enables women to establish a better understanding of their match before their first face-to-face encounter.

The Power of Messaging First

Here’s a little tip, fellas: women love it when you show personality in your messages. Online flirting is safer, but it’s also your chance to stand out. Don’t hit me with the dead-on-arrival “hey.” Send something clever, ask about my profile, or just be bold in a fun way.

Want more tips? Check out my Top 10 Online Dating Tips Every Guy Needs to Hear (From a Woman Who’s Seen It All)

Think of it like this – if you can’t keep my attention in a chat, why would I want to meet you for a drink? Show your charm and wit and humor through that messaging window. Be your authentic self while showing confidence because you both should think about how to have enjoyable moments together. Women choose to have fun above all else so they will go to great lengths to do so. (ANYTHING) for a man who can make her laugh. Challenge yourself and get after it tiger 😉

Casual Encounters on Your Terms

Online dating provides me with the freedom to control the speed of my interactions. I control all communication steps from responding to sharing my contact information until we decide to meet. The ability to control the timing of everything makes casual dating both safer and more enjoyable. Men should understand that the process requires patience because rushing the steps will create instant turnoffs for women.

A woman will start a meeting when she demonstrates her desire to learn more about you. Your combination of patience with playful and respectful conduct will help you achieve your objective in a shorter period.

Flirty but Safe: The Balance.. Don’t Be Creepy

Most men fail to understand that flirting does not require being creepy behavior. A playful comment about something in your profile picture would be considered attractive. A playful emoji that follows an entertaining comment will also be viewed as charming. The instant transition from conversation to asking about my current clothing choice represents a major error. Women seek both admiration and respect in their interactions. When you achieve the right balance between interest and respect women will definitely take notice.

Why Hookups Online Just Works

At the end of the day, online dating is about convenience and control. We live busy lives, and finding hookups or dates in the wild feels outdated and risky. Dating sites and apps put the power in our hands. I get to decide who gets my attention and who gets unmatched, all without leaving my couch. It can be fun and a huge turn on btw!

So, guys, here’s the truth: if you want to actually land casual encounters, stop relying on chance meetings and start playing the online game the right way. Put effort into your profile, send flirty but respectful messages, and remember – it’s supposed to be fun.

About the Author

Sienna Mitchell, First Amendment Reporter

Sienna Mitchell is a contributing author for BonePage.com adult classifieds. She is a talented and experienced First Amendment reporter and published author based in Phoenix, Arizona. With a passion for uncovering stories and exposing injustices within the adult entertainment community, Sienna has made a name for herself as a reporter who focuses on the intersection of first amendment issues and the adult entertainment industry.

Sienna’s prior experience as a webcam model gives her a unique perspective on the challenges faced by sex workers and adult performers. Her experience and extensive knowledge of the adult industry makes her an authoritative voice on the subject. Sienna Mitchell is a skilled reporter whose work is making a difference in the adult entertainment industry.